To - Counsellor and Social Worker
Subject - I'm being bullied!!
There's this woman who's always had a bit of an attitude with me, like kissing her teeth when I sit down and the chair accidentally scrapes, etc. and now she's started bullying me.
Yesterday in art the tutor was waiting for us to fill out forms, and the music was on. Since we were not doing anything I started singing. She's then shouted aggressively
'WILL YOU SHUT UP'
I've replied no we're not doing anything. So I've carried on singing and she kept on shouting the above. She then shouted I was acting like a toddler (what does she expect when she was speaking to me like one). Shouting got worse and we were pulled from the session.
In with the counsellors she tried to say she spoke to me nicely, and said please. I replied this was bull, and when ever anyone has asked me nicely to stop doing something like being loud, I've always complied.
So now today, she normally isolates, but made a real effort to come out to the smoking shelter and who ever I was talking to she had to get their attention, start talking to them making sure she took the attention away from me.
So back in group and I've gone to speak and she purposely started talking over me. Now outside in the smoking shelter I tolerated, as I'm more well received than her so it didn't bother me.
I was calm as fcuk and asked her not to talk over me. She started shouting aggressively how do I like it. Everyone was telling her to leave it
Instead of getting angry I went and spoke to a counsellor who were super impressed I didn't react and did the right thing.
Anyway I'm ok with the situation at the moment but I will not tolerate bullying behaviour.
I've suggested mediation should it continue.
I knew this would happen. She can't cope with me having ADHD, and yes I talk over people, but NEVER is it done maliciously. I can help having ADHD.
Anyway this is why I didn't want a woman's only rehab. But I'm well liked and everyone else says they would change me, as I make them all laugh.
Speak soon
Jay
Counsellor
HI Jay
nice to hear from you. As you said you are managing difficult situations which always happens between humans ... man and women alike
R
Social Worker
Hi Jay
Sounds like you dealt well with the situation.
I've left a message with your support worker, Paula, but have not yet heard back. I'll give her a call today.
Thanks for letting me know.
L
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